Purity is the new sexy coaching

YOU'RE NOT ALONE.  70% of men in church, 50% of pastors, and 30% of women in church view pornography on a regular basis.  

The Mission of Purity Is The New Sexy Coaching is to rescue spiritually off track Christian men from their powerlessness to lust by equipping them with keys to freedom from the root causes that are driving them to act out so they can walk in their God given identity.  Also, we offer Betrayal Trauma Coaching for the affected spouse.  

OUR COACHING STYLE:  Your acting out is just a "Symptom."  There is an underlying Root Cause.  We help you discover and address what is driving you to act out so the symptoms will go away.  

We recognize and emphasize the understanding of how a traumatic experience --- or a set of experiences --- can impact a person’s mental, behavioral, emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being.

We help you draw connections between your traumatic life experiences and your emotional and behavioral responses. We offer you skills and strategies that assist you in better understanding, coping with, and processing emotions and memories that are tied to traumatic experiences --- with the end goal of enabling you to create a healthier and more adaptive meaning of the experience.

We teach bona fide coping skills so you can say no to the bully in your head, capture toxic thoughts and redirect them to life giving, Godly thoughts.  

OUR COACHING PHILOSOPHY:   The relationship between coach and client is an agent for change and healing.  Telling your story is scary at first.  We get that.  But it is the fist step towards healing.  When you begin sharing how you were first wounded and/or traumatized and how you first got exposed to pornography the addiction begins to lose power.  Keeping it a secret and "Trying  Harder" to quit gives it power.  It's like pulling on a noose around your neck.  The harder you pull the tighter it gets.  We believe in empowering our clients and giving them a safe place to begin telling their story and healing.,  We tailor our techniques and interventions with each individual. 

We will collaborate with you to make meaning of your experiences and, then, to help you to move forward on your journey from Surviving --- to THRIVING!

We believe that most want to overcome their addictions, but often just do not know how.  We show you how to discover your heart wounds, triggers and pathways that are causing issues and preventing you from getting where you want to be.  We teach you how to "break down" your past and find the root and source of where and why any disconnection exists.

We are always mindful of the importance of how mental, behavioral, emotional, physical, and spiritual health interplay with our functioning as human beings. Our passion is helping you on your journey to becoming your "best self", by providing you with resources to thrive and grow.

We look forward to walking with you on this journey.